In & out of love

A lot has been said and written on one of the most complex human phenomena called 'love', & yet, no one knows why we fall in love, or fall out of it.

Subsumed under 'love' is a mother's love for her child, a patriot's love for his country, a messiah's love for his folk & everything which encompasses a selfless act of adulation. For me, thats love in its purest immaculate form.

I am no doctor here to talk of enzymes, stimulus or the brain segment which causes it. But all I want to say is for people 'falling in love' with each other, its only a facade. A charade which is always mutual. They gain some - lose some, give some - take some. The verity so goes, we are all greedy for some support. Its never enough for us. We cling on to each other like symbiotic parasites, & when the sweet stuff is all over, let loose.
Its human, & I'm no log here. But for people in love, they'd always demur.

I have seen people going crazy - laughing it up, crying it out, ambivalent & pertinaciuous. Something was always right & concomitantly something was always wrong. It was spicy. It was exciting. I was always in a quandary, wondering if they were on either side of the thin line which divides being dissatisfied & being unsatisfied. But like I said, its only a facade. No sooner, ennui uproots the blossoming flower, & everything withers away to a salvo of expletives.

So heres the point:
Deep inside, we are greedy.
Deep inside, we crave for attention.
Deep inside, we need another brain to dump our garbage.
Deep inside, we are only a species who yearn to mate.

But 'love', so to speak, is only a primordial human impulse. And thats the way we lose paradise. Or in some cases, seize it.